We Should Do That Again!

Overhead door

About 15 years ago CJ and I were riding with our longtime friend and horse trainer Dennis Paschal. We were down at his place riding in his indoor arena. All of a sudden, someone opened up one of the overhead doors.

Dennis’s horse just stood there and looked in the direction of the door while our horses headed instantly in the opposite direction almost dumping us in the process. When our horses had settled down Dennis exclaimed cheerfully, “We should do that again!”

So for the next half hour we just rode around the arena while someone opened and closed the overhead door until we could stand right next to it and it didn’t bother them anymore.

We all know riders who have a created a list of things that they don’t want going on around their horse. “My horse doesn’t like mail boxes.” “My horse is afraid of dogs.” “My horse doesn’t like yellow rain slickers.” “My horse doesn’t like a step up trailer.” “My horse doesn’t like to cross water.”

Horses running thru a river.

For some people the list just goes on and on. I know because, before CJ and I started training and riding with Dennis, we were that person!

As our relationship grew with our horses we found things that our horses didn’t like. So we started trying to control the environment around us so our horse wouldn’t be put into a situation that he didn’t like. This is faulty thinking.

What we need to be thinking is “We should do that again!” When we discover something our horse is uncomfortable with, it is our responsibility as their caretakers to help them to learn how to deal with it rather than run from it.

Dennis has taught us that while we may have plans for a ten mile trail ride, we might not make the whole ten miles. The time to address a training issue is when it first comes up.

Instead of hurrying our horse by an obstacle and then continuing on with our goal of a ten mile trail ride, we need to take the time to help the horse become more comfortable so that it doesn’t become a bigger issue in the future.

Once we were riding with Dennis and we came to a stream we had to cross. My horse had been through many streams, many times, but today the water was a little faster and a little deeper than he was used to.

Instead of just pushing him through the stream and continuing with our plan we stopped and spent the next 45 minutes playing in the water. Entering the stream and standing for a bit and then exiting the stream. Walking up and down the stream and then out.

By the time we were done I could back my horse into the water, turn him around and back him out of the water. My horse became so comfortable that he eventually laid down in the water. My horse has never had a problem with water since.

We can’t possibly control everything in the environment around our horse. But we can help him become more comfortable with things. By taking the time it takes when a problem first shows up (instead of ignoring the problem and hoping for the best), we end up with a much safer companion.

Some of the friends we used to ride with don’t ride with us anymore because they are tired of us stopping in the middle of a trail ride to address a problem. But that’s OK. To them, training is done in an arena not on a trail ride.

When Dennis comes to work with one of our horses he usually will have something in mind to work on that day. But half the time what was planned never happens because something comes up and that becomes the focus of the lesson.

Dennis says, “The horse writes the book, we just turn the pages.” Even though we may have a plan for our horse that day, we have to be flexible and change what we are doing depending on what the horse needs that day. Not what we need.

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  1. Thank you for keeping in touch. I always enjoy hearing from you about your horses and saddles . Is there any news about Synergist at the Tevis race? A friend had a horse in the race and as always it was very exciting. Someday……..ed

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      Hi Ed
      Thank you! We have lots of Endurance riders using our saddles, that is where we began. My father in-law completed the Tevis 4 times. Never give up on your dream!

  2. Thanks for the update on Smokey! Enjoyed hearing about his progress.

    Thanks also for the great article about taking advantage of training moments. Wonderful advice!

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  3. That’s awesome!
    I hear the same thing from horse people all the time… “My horse is afraid of bicycles. I can’t ride on multipurpose trails.” Since my husband and I wanted to ride together…he on a bike and I on the horse. We then worked with my horse on accepting bikes. Not just riding in front of him, but behind and along side. I first lead my horse with my husband on his bike and rode by the horse coming up from the rear…not saying anything. Then, he rode in front and behind. I said, “You need to ride past him and then when you get in front of him, fall.” He’s like, “WHAT?!” “Um, you do fall occasionally, so you need to fall, so he knows.” So he did. After that, I got on the horse and we did the same thing. From that day on, we’d ride bikes in the AM then he’d come with me on trail…me on horse and he on bike. We had all kinds of incidents and experiences, but never a horse that spooked because of the bike. Ps….I wish more people would work with horses and bikes. It would help with having more trails for all to ride, but so many want their own trails. Sad

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  4. This article served as a wonderful reminder that I have been learning from the wonderful owners of the barn where I board. I was told to come with a goal in mind of what I want to work on, but be willing to change as needed based on the horse who showed up. My mare has become my greatest teacher from the moment I started following this and it goes hand in hand with you’re story. May we all continue to find things that “need doing again” to become better partners with our horses.

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